The Perfect Morning Routine Doesn’t Exist
4:30am Wake up
4:42am Meditate
5:05am Cold Plunge
5:30am Journal
6:00am Workout
7:00am Breakfast
…Yada yada yada…
This is your classic, run-of-the-mill 15 step morning routine popularized by an instagram influencer with no kids, no job, and an endless budget. Whether you’ve seen the videos or heard the tales of crazy morning routines, the chances you actually know a real person with a routine like this are incredibly slim.
Routines are great, but seeing unrealistic ones all over your social media feeds can make them seem daunting. People think change comes from big, dramatic efforts like the perfect workout plan, the perfect diet, or where you wake up, meditate, meal prep, meditate, journal, meditate, and exercise... while meditating. Real life doesn’t work like that. Most of us are juggling work, kids, commutes, dogs, appointments, and whatever chaos shows up between your zoom meetings each day.
The truth is, the small habits and routines are the most important ones. They aren’t impressive or flashy but what they lack in style, they make up for in repetition. And repetition is where the magic happens.
Small routines create momentum. Doing something small consistently is so much more effective than doing something big rarely. Consistency compounds. Ten minutes of mobility each night doesn’t look like much, but over a month it adds up to hours of taking care of your body. A five minute morning walk doesn’t feel like a workout, but over a year it becomes a powerful habit that boosts mood, lowers stress, and gets your body moving.
Most of us get stuck trying to start too big. We hear that we need 10,000 steps per day or that we should have veggies at each meal, and we make a big, abrupt change. We spend the first 2 days hitting our goal, only to slowly fall off over the next week because it didn’t actually fit with our life. In order to deadlift 500 pounds, whether that’s your goal or not, we first have to deadlift 100 pounds. Next it’s 135, then 200, then 225, and so on… Routines and daily habits work the same way. Start off super small and stick to it. A 5 minute walk after dinner can snowball into a daily routine 6 months from now that you won’t believe.
And maybe the most underrated part is that routines give you stability when life inevitably gets chaotic. You don’t need a perfect plan. You don’t need a 20-step morning ritual or a flawlessly structured life. You just need a handful of anchors in your day. The small habits you fall back on no matter what else is going on. A morning protein breakfast. A daily walk. Three weekly gym visits. A nightly stretch. These aren’t huge commitments, but they keep you moving in the right direction. Start tiny and let the momentum build!
Hart











