Are New Year's Resolutions Dead?
Honestly?... I think so! This might be a little more of an opinionated post than in the past but everyone seems to have a different opinion about the resolutions of the New Year, so strap in!
Some love them and go all in, some hate them and don’t participate, and others choose lofty goals every year only to fall short after 3 days. No matter which one you are now, there’s a decent chance you’ve bounced around from committed, to who cares, in the past.
So…my two cents. I’m not here to tell you that one way is better than another but I think in this world of trying to stay away from crash diets, but also see results, the sweet spot can be tough to find. As the New Year approaches and you start to think about what you want 2026 to look like, try to picture what your perfect day is and what type of person you want to become.
Maybe your perfect day starts with getting out of bed when your alarm goes off instead of hitting snooze three times. Maybe it includes 30 minutes of movement not because you “have to work out,” but because that’s what this version of you does. Maybe it’s two short walks, a prepared meal instead of fast food, and putting your phone down a little earlier than usual.
None of these things are dramatic. None of them will change your life in a day. But doing them most days, will.
Try to be realistic.
Without diving into the “smart” goal realm, try to build your perfect day in a way that feels like a little bit of a challenge, but is absolutely doable 80% of the time.
With that being said…I think sometimes we fall into the trap of: if things are challenging, then it is probably too much. But why? The goals that we may have for the future are going to require some different work than what we do now. That’s hard and that’s okay. Not that we need to choose to run a marathon if we haven’t done one lap around the block, but don’t shy away from the big goals.
Studies say that it takes about 2 months to build a habit. I think that's a crazy assumption to make. It depends on the person, and depends on the habit. A great way to keep this “perfect day” on track, is to actually write it down. Now I know the sticky note on the mirror might seem crazy, but the point is to see it every day. Write it on the fridge or put it on your phone, just try to find a place that you see early and often during the day. This keeps it top of mind and can be a good reminder if you start to slip a little. Get as specific or vague as you want! You can put things at specific times, or just in order from start to finish, but win the day and the goals take care of themselves.
Goals are outcomes. Days are behaviors. You don’t control outcomes. You control what you do today. Stack enough good days together, and the result usually looks a lot like the goal you were chasing anyway.
You don’t need a new year. You don’t need a resolution. You need a clear picture of the type of day you want to repeat, and the discipline to keep showing up for it.
Hart











